Finding True Love Across The Miles In This Modern Day

“…You can’t hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love don’t come easy
It’s a game of give and take

You can’t hurry love
No, you just have to wait
You got to trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes…”

– The Supremes

a-sweet couple

Yes I believe it.  You can’t hurry love.  True love can wait and it will come at the right moment you need it. Some people travel the world and during their wanderings they meet someone unintentionally.  At that moment, they feel the love inside.  Love at first sight…true love like no other.  And that’s a fact in some stories I heard from friends and family.

In this generation of modern technology, old fashioned courtship can only be found in distant places in the provinces.  Most likely in the third world countries.  In the Philippines, old fashioned courtship or test of love is still done to this day.

The Suitor’ Pursuance

The suitor asks the woman’s parents’ permission to court her.

He brings flowers and simple presents to his love.

He serenades his love usually in the evening when he comes for a visit.

Whenever the man gets the chance, he helps with the household’s outdoor chores like fetching water, bring firewood, and harvesting crops.

 The Woman’s Answer

It is the woman’s decision to accept and say “Yes” to the suitor.  If she loves him in return, then they will have a happy relationship.

In the modern world today, courtship can be done on the Internet.  I met my husband on a dating site.  It was a free online dating site where single men and women meet and get to know each other for a lifetime love.  The site is free.  No membership charges or anything.  We fell in love and had a long distance relationship.  He traveled across the miles to visit me.  My husband and I found true love and we are now a happy couple and proud parents of a sweet smart little girl.

I Found Love Online

I heard some said that a person’s love life is poor if he or she doesn’t have someone who cares for them. In short, if you do not have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you have a poor love life. A friend teased me with these words before. “I am not in a hurry”, I answered back. “The right man will come for me”.

It came true. I met my husband online. He is the most lovable and gentleman I have ever met in my life. We corresponded for two years before we met in person because we are over a thousand miles away from each other. In my personal experience, I tell you that looking for the right man or woman is not difficult. When I started to know dating sites in the internet, I joined in and searched for someone who is compatible with me. Then I met my prince charming.

With the help of modern technology, single men and women search for free personal profiles in online dating sites like It is safe, smart, and more convenient for searching matched singles who have the same personality as you are. Members can navigate the site easily through its categorized options. The search for love, romance, and friendship is safe with because they were endorsed as the only site that conducts background screenings and Single Certification so dishonest individuals are prohibited. Joining is easy since signing up is FREE.

Love conquers all…even the distance.

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Criteria for Choosing a Mate

I got a tag from Naomi, a Filipina friend in South Carolina, this evening (June 9). This is something about what criteria does a man or a woman is searching for choosing a mate and partner for life.

Every individual has his own standards, high or low. When you found someone who, you feel will be the one to spend the rest of your life with, the big decision is yours. The most important is that, both parties have thought about what kind of relationships they are getting into. I think you know what I mean.

It is normal to have some standards. But mine are simple and I would like to share them with you. What’s yours?

My Top 5 Criteria

  1. God fearing
  2. Sensible
  3. Good-looking
  4. Affectionate
  5. Easy to please

I appreciate Naomi for sharing me this tag. On the other hand, I would like to pass this tag to Cacais50, Enday, Vhi